{"id":870,"date":"2021-03-21T00:51:09","date_gmt":"2021-03-20T21:51:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.petinya.org\/blog\/?p=870"},"modified":"2021-03-21T00:51:09","modified_gmt":"2021-03-20T21:51:09","slug":"hayatin-6-aci-gercegi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/hayatin-6-aci-gercegi\/","title":{"rendered":"Hayat\u0131n 6 Ac\u0131 Ger\u00e7e\u011fi"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Hayat\u0131n 6 Ac\u0131 Ger\u00e7e\u011fi<\/strong> G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde insanlar d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerinde fazla ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in hayat\u0131n ac\u0131 ger\u00e7eklerini unutuyor. Bireysel hayatlar\u0131nda hayallerinin y\u0131k\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rerek depresyon, anksiyete gibi <a href=\"https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/psikolojik-cokuntuden-kurtulmak-icin-oneriler\/\">psikolojik<\/a> sorunlar ortaya \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor. Bu y\u00fczden insan problemlerini \u00e7\u00f6zmek yerine ka\u00e7may\u0131 tercih etti\u011finden dolay\u0131 daha da mutsuz hale geliyor.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Aci_Gerckler_%E2%80%93_Hayatin_Aci_Gercekleri\"><\/span>Ac\u0131 Ger\u00e7kler &#8211; Hayat\u0131n Ac\u0131 Ger\u00e7ekleri<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Konfor alan\u0131n\u0131n verdi\u011fi rahatl\u0131k y\u00fcz\u00fcnden hayat\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015fam\u0131yor ve insan kendini hayat\u0131n ger\u00e7eklerinden kopar\u0131yor. \u0130nsan hayat\u0131n ger\u00e7eklerini kabul etmeli ve y\u00fczle\u015fmek zorundad\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-4337 alignnone\" src=\"https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/olum-gercegi.jpg\" alt=\"\u00d6l\u00fcm Ger\u00e7e\u011fi\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1000\" srcset=\"https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/olum-gercegi.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/olum-gercegi-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/olum-gercegi-50x50.jpg 50w, https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/olum-gercegi-120x120.jpg 120w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1Olum\"><\/span>1)\u00d6l\u00fcm<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Hayat\u0131n en \u00f6nemli ger\u00e7e\u011fi \u00f6l\u00fcmd\u00fcr. Her insan \u00f6l\u00fcm korkusuyla ya\u015far ama buna korkuyu korku olarak d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmemesi laz\u0131m gerekir. \u0130nsan bir g\u00fcn \u00f6lece\u011fini kabul edip hayat\u0131n\u0131 istedi\u011fi gibi ya\u015famal\u0131d\u0131r. \u00d6rne\u011fin bir insan \u00fcretmek istiyorsa \u00fcretmelidir, kitap yazmak istiyorsa yazmal\u0131d\u0131r. Bunun gibi \u00e7ok gibi \u00e7ok \u00f6rnek var. Yeter ki insan hayat\u0131n\u0131 istedi\u011fi ya\u015fas\u0131n. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan yapamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feyler i\u00e7in \u201cke\u015fke zaman\u0131nda yapsayd\u0131m \u201cbenzeri c\u00fcmleler kurarak i\u00e7 \u00e7eker. Hayat\u0131 istedi\u011finiz gibi ya\u015fay\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-4338 alignnone\" src=\"https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/kimse-vazgecilmez-degldir.jpg\" alt=\"Kimse Vazge\u00e7ilmez De\u011fildir\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1000\" srcset=\"https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/kimse-vazgecilmez-degldir.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/kimse-vazgecilmez-degldir-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/kimse-vazgecilmez-degldir-50x50.jpg 50w, https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/kimse-vazgecilmez-degldir-120x120.jpg 120w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2Kimse_Vazgecilmez_Degildir\"><\/span>2)Kimse Vazge\u00e7ilmez De\u011fildir<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>\u0130nsan do\u011fas\u0131 gere\u011fi bencil varl\u0131kt\u0131r. \u0130nsan\u0131n insana \u00e7ektirdi\u011fi z\u00fcl\u00fcm yoktur zaten. Birbirine \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck kurmak ister her zaman. \u0130nsanlarla ileti\u015fimimizi o y\u00fczden belli bir s\u0131n\u0131rlar i\u00e7inde ve sayg\u0131 i\u00e7erisinde kurmamam\u0131z laz\u0131md\u0131r. Size \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck kurmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan birisiyle ileti\u015fimi kesin. Ki\u015fisel hayat\u0131n\u0131za birisine almak istiyorsunuz da onunla zaman ge\u00e7irin. Hayat k\u0131sa.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-4339 alignnone\" src=\"https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/hayat-bazen-adalet-icin-sizi-yorar.jpg\" alt=\"Hayat Bazen Adalet \u0130\u00e7in Siz Yorar\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1000\" srcset=\"https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/hayat-bazen-adalet-icin-sizi-yorar.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/hayat-bazen-adalet-icin-sizi-yorar-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/hayat-bazen-adalet-icin-sizi-yorar-50x50.jpg 50w, https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/hayat-bazen-adalet-icin-sizi-yorar-120x120.jpg 120w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3Hayat_Bazen_Adalet_Icin_Siz_Yorar\"><\/span>3)Hayat Bazen Adalet \u0130\u00e7in Siz Yorar<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><strong>Hayat\u0131n 6 Ac\u0131 Ger\u00e7e\u011fi <\/strong>Hayat ger\u00e7ekten adil de\u011fil. Her insan kendi hakk\u0131n\u0131 almak ister ama hakk\u0131n\u0131 almak i\u00e7in \u00e7ok u\u011fra\u015fmal\u0131d\u0131r. \u0130nsan bu hayata eme\u011finin kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 almak i\u00e7in de\u011fil \u00fcretmek i\u00e7in gelmi\u015ftir. Bu bir tercih meseledir. Ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olmak isteyen ba\u015farmak i\u00e7in \u00e7abalar. Yatmak isteyen yatar. \u00d6nemli olan sadece \u00e7ok fazla gayret g\u00f6stermek.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-4340 alignnone\" src=\"https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/bir-insani-degistiremezsiniz.jpg\" alt=\"Bir insan\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftiremezsiniz\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1000\" srcset=\"https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/bir-insani-degistiremezsiniz.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/bir-insani-degistiremezsiniz-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/bir-insani-degistiremezsiniz-50x50.jpg 50w, https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/bir-insani-degistiremezsiniz-120x120.jpg 120w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4Bir_insani_degistiremezsiniz\"><\/span>4)Bir insan\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftiremezsiniz<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><strong>Hayat\u0131n 6 Ac\u0131 Ger\u00e7e\u011fi <\/strong>Hayalinizde erke\u011fin veya kad\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6zelikleri var diyelim. Kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131za \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131 ve birbirinize a\u015f\u0131k oldunuz, ili\u015fkiniz ba\u015flad\u0131. \u0130li\u015fki ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 andan itibaren hayalinizde ya\u015famaya ba\u015flad\u0131n\u0131z ve hayalinizdeki kad\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6zeliklerine sahip de\u011fil. Burada yapmaman\u0131z gereken yanl\u0131\u015f ili\u015fkide oldu\u011funuz insan\u0131 sak\u0131n de\u011fi\u015ftirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131n. Onu oldu\u011fu gibi kabullenin. G\u00fczel ve ideal bir ili\u015fki olmas\u0131 gereken en \u00f6nemli do\u011fru.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-4341 alignnone\" src=\"https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/insanlar-guce-deger-verir.jpg\" alt=\"\u0130nsanlar G\u00fcce De\u011fer Verir\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1000\" srcset=\"https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/insanlar-guce-deger-verir.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/insanlar-guce-deger-verir-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/insanlar-guce-deger-verir-50x50.jpg 50w, https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/insanlar-guce-deger-verir-120x120.jpg 120w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5Insanlar_Guce_Deger_Verir\"><\/span>5)\u0130nsanlar G\u00fcce De\u011fer Verir<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><em>Hayat\u0131n 6 Ac\u0131 Ger\u00e7e\u011fi <\/em>\u0130nsan\u0131n do\u011fas\u0131nda olan bir \u015fey yap\u0131lacak bir \u015fey yok bu konuda. Ne kadar g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc olursan\u0131z \u00e7evrenizde o kadar insan olur. \u00c7evrenizdeki insanlar kad\u0131n ya da erkek olsun. Ne kadar para kazand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131za bakar ve ona g\u00f6re sizinle ileti\u015fim kurmak isterler.<\/p>\n<p>Kendini hayatta g\u00f6stermek ve entelekt\u00fcel olmak i\u00e7in not. Entelekt\u00fcel olmak bilgili olmak de\u011fildir, bilgiyi nas\u0131l kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ilgilidir.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-4342 alignnone\" src=\"https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/sevdiginiz-kisiyi-fazla-incitirsiniz.jpg\" alt=\"Sevdi\u011finiz Ki\u015fiyi Fazla \u0130ncitirsiniz\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1000\" srcset=\"https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/sevdiginiz-kisiyi-fazla-incitirsiniz.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/sevdiginiz-kisiyi-fazla-incitirsiniz-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/sevdiginiz-kisiyi-fazla-incitirsiniz-50x50.jpg 50w, https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/sevdiginiz-kisiyi-fazla-incitirsiniz-120x120.jpg 120w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"6Sevdiginiz_Kisiyi_Fazla_Incitirsiniz\"><\/span>6)Sevdi\u011finiz Ki\u015fiyi Fazla \u0130ncitirsiniz<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>En \u00e7ok sevdi\u011fimiz insan\u0131 sinirlendirir ve kalbini k\u0131rar\u0131z bu hayatta. \u0130nsan bile bazen ne yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmiyor hayatta. Hayat\u0131n ger\u00e7ekleri hakk\u0131nda fark\u0131ndal\u0131\u011f\u0131 y\u00fcksek olan insan sevdi\u011fi insan\u0131 incitir ama nerede duraca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 da bilir. Ona g\u00f6rede sevdi\u011fi insan\u0131n kalbini onarmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Neden diyorsunuz?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Allah insan\u0131 erkek ve kad\u0131n olarak ikiye ay\u0131rd\u0131. Kalplerindeki eksikli\u011fi aramak i\u00e7in yola \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131. Ve yolda buldu\u011fu ki\u015filerin kalplerini k\u0131rd\u0131 sadece ta ki kalbinin eksik yar\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 bulana kadar.<\/p>\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_82_2 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">\u0130\u00e7indekiler<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"\u0130\u00e7indekiler Tablosunu A\u00e7\/Kapat\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 eztoc-toggle-hide-by-default' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/hayatin-6-aci-gercegi\/#Aci_Gerckler_%E2%80%93_Hayatin_Aci_Gercekleri\" >Ac\u0131 Ger\u00e7kler &#8211; Hayat\u0131n Ac\u0131 Ger\u00e7ekleri<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/hayatin-6-aci-gercegi\/#1Olum\" >1)\u00d6l\u00fcm<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/hayatin-6-aci-gercegi\/#2Kimse_Vazgecilmez_Degildir\" >2)Kimse Vazge\u00e7ilmez De\u011fildir<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/hayatin-6-aci-gercegi\/#3Hayat_Bazen_Adalet_Icin_Siz_Yorar\" >3)Hayat Bazen Adalet \u0130\u00e7in Siz Yorar<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/hayatin-6-aci-gercegi\/#4Bir_insani_degistiremezsiniz\" >4)Bir insan\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftiremezsiniz<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/hayatin-6-aci-gercegi\/#5Insanlar_Guce_Deger_Verir\" >5)\u0130nsanlar G\u00fcce De\u011fer Verir<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/hayatin-6-aci-gercegi\/#6Sevdiginiz_Kisiyi_Fazla_Incitirsiniz\" >6)Sevdi\u011finiz Ki\u015fiyi Fazla \u0130ncitirsiniz<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hayat\u0131n 6 Ac\u0131 Ger\u00e7e\u011fi G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde insanlar d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerinde fazla ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in hayat\u0131n ac\u0131 ger\u00e7eklerini unutuyor. Bireysel hayatlar\u0131nda hayallerinin y\u0131k\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rerek depresyon, anksiyete gibi psikolojik sorunlar ortaya \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor. Bu y\u00fczden insan problemlerini \u00e7\u00f6zmek yerine ka\u00e7may\u0131 &#8230; <\/p>\n<p class=\"read-more-container\"><a title=\"Hayat\u0131n 6 Ac\u0131 Ger\u00e7e\u011fi\" class=\"read-more button\" href=\"https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/hayatin-6-aci-gercegi\/#more-870\" aria-label=\"Read more about Hayat\u0131n 6 Ac\u0131 Ger\u00e7e\u011fi\">Devam\u0131n\u0131 Oku<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":871,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-870","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kisisel-gelisim","resize-featured-image"],"views":292,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/870","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=870"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/870\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/871"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=870"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=870"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/petinya.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=870"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}